From Marriage Today:
We don’t always talk about it in church or among our friends, but sexual problems are one of the main causes of tension between married couples.
I’ve counseled many couples who marry with great sexual energy and attraction only to end up fighting—or even divorcing—because of sexual problems.
Unresolved anger is one of the main causes of sexual tension. Anger is inevitable in every marriage. There is simply no way two people can live together without getting upset at each other on a regular basis. Even healthy couples struggle with this.
The issue isn’t whether we will experience anger, but how we deal with it.
Read the rest of the story here.
For the wrath of man worketh not the righteousness of God.
James 1:20 KJV
If anger is a constant companion in your marriage, start by voicing your forgiveness for your spouse outloud. Make sure the enemy of your marriage (the devil) hears you. Then tell your spouse that you said it and ask him/her to do the same outloud. Make it clear to the enemy that there is a “new game in town.”
I recently did this and I could feel something spiritually leave the room!
Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.
James 4:7 KJV
And if your spouse refuses to resist the devil and continues to harbor anger, then that is between them and God. You have been obedient. But keep doing it anyway, until you see change in the natural realm.
Don’t give up and don’t stop until you have the victory!
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